On the self-discovery thing. I tell her that I believe she should pursue herself and grow. I just don't believe that you should throw away your marriage over it.

I emphasize that there is always the divorce option, but when it's over, it's over. Right now, we have our one opportunity to make it work.

She says that's untrue, that there is always the option to reunite. My reply was that there is no chance, that I will not come back for a re-run.

How could I chance all of this again? That's insane!


Argue your limitations and sure enough, they are yours. - Richard Bach