I hear what you're saying. Trouble is in the light of this new information I'm not sure what my goals are. For him to leave for four months and deny the whole time that anything was going on and they be home for four months and deny anthing is or ever did happen and now to find this....I don't think I want to be with him if he has lied about it because he has had more than enough opportunities to tell me.
I have been sat thinking the same thing you said - I have a 50/50 chance of hearing the truth and if he's been lying all this time maybe that lowers my odds of hearing the truth even further.
