Runner wrote:"There is no endorphin release when I am with him...just stress about running the household and positively raising the kids. "

So, find an activity that you can do together that makes both of you feel good. That is good juju for the relationship.

If you don't have a spark, make one.

-NOPkins-

I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.