Charge!!!!!!!! I may be gentle and patient but don't mess with my family or friends or the claws come out!!!!! They wouldn't stand a chance. It takes alot to get me angry but when I do WATCH OUT!!!!!!
Now please don't ASSume my friend. Hang back and watch!!!! I kind of figured your h would pull back some. Mine did the same. I think they think they can make the R with the ow work but in the long run it doesn't. You know the addiction gets them every time. I bet he contacts you soon!
If anybody can set these MLCers straight, it would be YOU! Underneath that "gentle, patient" demeanor of yours lurks a powerhouse. I'm glad you're on my team.
I'm trying to stay confident, but would you get the ropes and lassoes ready, just in case?
If you check out this article (relating to our MLCers and their shadows, projections, etc.), I think you will find it very interesting. A couple of the responses in the "Question/Answer" section also help explain opposite behaviors. The author combines Jung with astrology, but IMO explains the "shadow" concept very well.