My cooler is not working either. It keeps tripping the circuit breaker. Its hot here too. West Texas. AAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! Thank goodness the nights are still cool. But the days are warming up more and more. I need someone to come out to fix mine as well.
You just keep being consistent on your side no matter what. I think consistentancy is key when dealing with our S. They need to know they can rely on us being level because they obviously are not. The changes you make within yourself need to be long lasting. I know my H thinks that I will never change anything, I will always be the same in regards to the things I did that made him crazy. I have to make sure I sincerely make these changes in how I deal with my H permanent.
Once they feel safe with our changes and the changes in how we deal with our relationship issues. Once we are able to work through issues with mutual respect and hopefully once they are through with their own personal struggles or MLC. Then I think they will feel safe again. Hopefully sooner than that you H will be rid of that OW.
