Ok, she's already mad. So what have you got to lose by saying somthing like you're sorry for what she's going through, but does she actually think you would like this guy? Does she expect you two to be best buds? Ok, so you think he's a "Dick" you understand that she's hurting and needs to find herself, but that you "get it" that she isn't coming home. Reassure her you don't have "false hope". However, keep your real hope like the precious flame that it is and keep your expectations to zero.....
