OK those of you familiar with my sitch will recall that a couple of weeks ago I was really upset because H went out for the night and then at about 10pm while out he told me he was stopping out for the night. I was really upset and felt suspicious of it and we had a bit of an argument the next day but sorted it out.
H is at work tonight. He has been gone 3 hours and I went to the bathroom and as I came out I noticed a sim card for a mobile phone on the floor in the doorway. I know you'll all say this is very wrong and it probably is but....I put it in my phone. Yes I snooped. Basically H had a pay as you go phone until about 3 weeks ago when he got a contract one. Anyway the sim card turns out to be for the pay as you go phone. There are two texts from the W from work who I have been umming and aahing as to whether he had/is having an affair with.
The first text says that a male colleague of theres has texted her asking if they want to meet up and that she told him she have to speak to my H first but that my H would probably want to. The second is 5 mins later obviously after my H has texted something and it says "meet him he is OK about it all but ultimately it is down to you we can talk about it on Thurs x". Now Thursday is the day my H was supposed to be at work and then told me he'd arranged to have the day off only two days before it and also just so happens to be the night he stayed out all night.
This looks like major evidence to me of foul play on my H's part. I am in floods of tears and he is going to be home in just under four hours and I want to confront him with these texts. Help what should I do??
