I was thinking about it @ lunch today and this phenominon could also be compared to a woman's trouble w/ being her H's lover and the mother of her children.

Does anyone agree?

I know I had issues w/ this as it was hard for me to either see myself as both or switch hats at the end of the day.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10