Thanks for the email--I really appreciate you giving me some of your time, especially when you're under so much pressure right now.
In reading your current sitch, it sounds SO MUCH like mine, in that I've been doing 99% of the work and H has seemed to just like it that way...ignoring the existence of the elephant in the room and enjoying the convenience and safety of his family at his leisure.
I know that I had to get to the point of being truly ready to call it quits--he tried to call my bluff, but it wasn't a bluff--for him to really see what he stands to lose. Maybe the full import of it hasn't hit him yet, maybe it has. Time will tell.
I'm not naive, I know we can and probably will backslide, but I also know that if this M doesn't work out, I will not only be okay, I will be in a better place. I have already and will continue to be blessed in and for my efforts. There is no doubt in my mind of that.
The thing I'm learning most through all this is that the only person who knows where this is going is Heavenly Father, and that if I can just keep my grip on the iron rod, I'll be where I'm supposed to be.
I sense the same strength and knowledge in you. Hang in there--you are doing the right thing, and you will know beyond the shadow of doubt when it is time for you to make your next stand.
