I think there is a misconception...the type of conversation at the club is not about my marriage...it is about lifting and technique and new things that work. EtC. I have only confided in one man at the club...and he mostly talks about his situation and I offer advice. Positive, pro marriage advice. I rarely talk about my situation. But I do see that it is unfair to my spouse to be sharing any info outside our home.

I just wanted to clarify....the friendships with men and women at the club are just that...and the conversation is geared around workouts as I am very serious about my workout and only have limited time to get it in being that I have small children.