What I want to question is what happened in your life to make you want to change.
Where most of us fear to go ... severe cage rattling.
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What in you life and relationship could have changed in a possitive way to motivate you making these changes?
That really is the million dollar question. Most deep changes that are needed in R's like ours seem to only be motivated by extreme circumstances that would be labeled as negative (A's, hints/threats of S/D, actual S/D, WAS, etc.)
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
