Hey Cad I read this in a response to someone elses topic and thought that I would post on your thread instead.
You stated "I had to change my mindset before I could change my actions. "
What I want to question is what happened in your life to make you want to change.
From my reading of your story is that this has happend while your husband was treating you and your relationship, not very well. First off I have got to say that I find it a bit frustrating (mostly it is just my jealousy) that you are turning your sex life around in response to your husbands crap behavior. Anyway, seeing that you have made the change I am hoping that you can possibly shed some light on the changing of your attitude and specificly the following.
What in you life and relationship could have changed in a possitive way to motivate you making these changes?
