FYI, my H said/felt the "Sure, now you are going to do something about all of this," however, we are doing very well now so I know "they" can get through that thought process -- you just have to show, over time, that you are committed and that the changes are permanent ones. It takes a lot of time & patience on your part.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
