Just getting started peicing it back together 2

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SFA,
We went to a joint counselor and she meet with us seperate after the first meeting. The second time we meet with the counselor together, the counselor advised us that W had to deal with her issues before we should continue joint counseling. So W has gone to individual counseling once with another person in the same office before she dropped bomb on tuesday. She went to the counselor again yesterday and she has not changed her mind the way it seems. Last night after the kids went to bed I sat quietly on the couch watching tv with her for a while and then I got up and said I was going for a walk. When I returned she was in bed. This morning she didn't say anything to me when I was getting ready to leave and I asked if she wasn't talking today. She said she wondered when I moved the bed back to the basement and I replied "monday why". Her responce was that she wondered why I moved it back. I said I thought we had made a decission to make this work when I moved it back. She asked me what my plans were and I asked what she ment. She wondered when I was going to move out. I said I'm not. She said why do you want to make this harder and I replied "harder on who?" She said the last time you moved out without any hassel. I said the last time I was trying to save our marriage, now if she wants this she can move. She said she wasn't moving and I said neither am I. I then left for work.