Wow, that is EXACTLY what my H is going through and has been forever. He said those exact words "I can't have sex with you because I respect you too much" - I thought WTH are you talking about. People who love and respect each other ML ALL the time. But he admitted to the C that he has either had women as friends or lovers but never both. Now he is having a REALLY difficult time putting the two aspects of this relationship together. He says he is attracted to me sexually but his mind makes him stop because of his respect for me.
How do they get past this? We've been trying for years and it isn't working - was there any particular exercises or counselling that was suggested to you? I would be VERY interested
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
