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You stop trying to control him, and you open the cage door.
Then you set boundaries like I mentioned in a previous post,
I am not telling you to be a doormat, quite the opposite in fact.
Give up on making a normal husband of him in his current condition, and concentrate on getting him help with his addiction. If he refuses help, then you have some hard choices to make, and you already know what they are. I am not telling you anything that you don't already know.
The question you have to ask yourself is a simple one. How long am I willing to run in circles before I face up to the facts and act on them? Another week? Month? Year?
What is all this doing to your children?
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
