Chrome, I figured that was the scenerio. I so wish I could talk to all of these other LD wives and tell them how good it can truly be if you put some effort into the M and that includes the ML part.

Been there and don't ever want to go back. Still praying that it's not too little, too late for my M. Things are going great, but obviously takes awhile for the WAS to get back into things after the bomb, etc.

I think my H is finally getting to the point where he realizes that the changes I've made are for real and he's willing to put himsef out there a little more w/o worrying that he's going to get hurt again. I'm just making sure that he knows that for sure and making sure that I don't ever do the things that hurt him so badly ever again.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10