Hey Jersting,
Are ya'll going to counselling together? I am wondering what ya'll have done to "work" on the marriage together since cohabitating again. I think she is just going through a cycle as well and possibly even testing you to see if you will turn tail and run if she falters again.

I believe that you have to openly communicate with her while using your DB skills at the same time. Let her know your still there, but that you can also respect her space. I think it is sometimes harder putting it all back together than it is being apart. Takes 3 times the work to maintain it. You just hang strong, have a little faith in yourself and what you have changed about you. You will be fine....


Ian


M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09