It's so good to hear that your wife really wants your M to work and that she's more positive. I guess I'm learning that you have to find a balance when you talk to your spouse(so that you're not nagging but not keeping your feelings all bottled up either). It's just the getting to that balance place. I'm trying to find that cause my H either doesn't want to discuss the sitch(I'm nagging) or gets angry. I have had some times where he has listened but then doesn't comment and that drives me crazy not knowing what he thinks or feels.
"I'm determined to push for what's right in a healthy R."
"I've pretty much decided that I'm not going to stand for a mediocre R. I'm not going to keep quiet anymore."
Good for you! Why opt for "worse" when you can have "better", I think worse = things either of you can't control or make any effort to change. Better = giving 100% which includes sacrifice if that's what it takes(if having sex for one person is a sacrifice, then so be it) I don't like or feel like cooking, cleaning, doing laundry, etc.,etc.,etc. but I do it anyway. Nvraln
