My wife left me almost 3 weeks ago. It was 1 week before our 13th anniversary.
We been in counseling, but really not focused on the sexual issues yet. She has decided that it's too late and moved out.
If only I had listen more and understood what she was saying. And if I had only had read the SSM book before now I know that we wouldn't be in this situation.
We're very good friend and love each other very much. But my low desire and her high desire and me not waking up sooner has killed us.
In reading the SSM book, I also realize that it's not 100% my fault either. But, I've been the one who really hasn't listen and changed.
She's been asking why don't I desire her. I do, but she feels that I'm rejecting her and I can understand that now.
I need help. Specific help on how I can convince my wife that it's not too late. That I can change. That it's not just talk.
I know that actions speak louder than words, and I'm reading the DR & SSM books and working on myself. But the cold fact is that I've got to show her, tell her, convince her it's not too late.
