Your marriage can not be healed as long as your husband is an addict. So long as you don't realize the truth in the previous statement, you will be caught in a circle, always chasing your tail.
Trust me, your not going to hurt me... I think i am numb already. I do appreciate your input and I am always open to suggestions, so if you have them, don't hesitate to tell me. Please do suggest a strategy... I'm all ears, the only thing I hear from family (both sides) and friends are run, run as fast as you can and get rid of him!
I just feel like I have tried everything and it's either his way or the highway. The highway does not look or feel good to me right now, not that this does cause' it doesn't, it hurts. I look at hus phone bill and it makes me literally sick to my stomach!
When you say addicted, are you talking about OW, alcohol, or sex? Personally he has all three addictions.
I know this and have told it to my H. I do feel like I am caught up in a vicious circle for way too long. I am spinning wheels and chasing my tail.
Not that I would do it, but how would cheating on my H make things worse in what way, I don't even think he'd notice. He barely notices my now even though I am treating him very very well now and doing all the DBusting. Gee, I wonder if that would be ok with him... since it's ok for him to do it? I think it would be my own guilt that would get me in the end.
God Bless you and yours, too. Thanks, again and thanks & God Bless you too, Cadesmom
