I started a thread in the newcomers about a week ago but haven't had any responses so I thought I'd try here. I think he may be going through a MLC.
Brief summary: been married for five years tomorrow, told he wanted a divorce in oct 06, having an affair in feb 07. Things seem to be better between us because of my DBing, but is still seeing OW and still wants a D. He is still living at home but says he wants to move out.
My question: my H claims that he is in a pool league and goes to play every Thurs night. My daughter has dance class thurs nights so my parents watch my other 2 children for me. After dance class tonight i ran a few errands so I took a different route to pick up my kids. I saw my H truck at the local bar, I wasn't looking for it i trully believed he was playing pool, but there it was parked at the bar right next to the road for everyone to see(positive it was his). There were too many other cars in the parking lot to see if OW's car was there but I know she wasn't at home, so I bet she was. Should I confront him with this is just pretent I didn't see his truck? He hates lying but that is all he seems to do anymore.
me: 31, H: 32 Together 7 yrs; married 5yrs D-3, S-2, S-6m bomb #1: 10/06 (wants divorce) bomb #2: 2/24/07 (having affair) my story