OK, gave the second interpretation of what happened yourself, right here. H didn't sit on this forever - he sat on it until MC. Isn't it possible that he didn't bring it out right at the moment, in the middle of the trip, because he wanted your vacation together to go well? Perhaps he didn't understand what your reaction to his waiting would be - he thought it would be better to let the vacation be fun and happy, and then bring up his issue in the "safe" environment of MC later on? Obviously, that backfired on him pretty badly - but you are assuming a LOT of bad stuff based on one incident of poor communication.
Yeah, yeah, that's what the MC said. But STILL...I mean, COME ON. I've changed. I've risked TONS....so now it's his darn turn. I'm tired of having all the responsibility here. Put on your big boy pants! He'll never know if he doesn't try.
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And as for snooping - well, now, FoundGirl, I shouldn't have to tell you about that at all! We went through too much of that together, back in the rough days. Let that go. Look at what you found out - from an outsider's point of view, it's totally and completely inconclusive, and you've built a case on top of it so big that you're ending with your post with "I'll file the papers myself." C'mon, SD. You're better than that. Shake it off - I know you can
Well hell, I KNOW that. I know it's crazy, I know it's stupid. I see it as proof I'm not over that whole issue...and H can't figure out why I'm not. He's still got trust to earn back. I'm trying...but his behavior lately has just sent up some flags for me.
I'll give it a few days and try to post the good stuff. Honestly, right now I just don't want to. I'm tired and annoyed. It's his turn to worry, his turn to pursue me. I want more.
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
