2angry, Quick words of advice 1. make a new thread on the ¨newcomers¨ forum and add a link to your thread in your signature. This will attract more attention from the sages that contribute to this bb. 2. buy Divorce Remedy (DR), read it and live it. There may be other books apply specifically to your sitch (Chapman's 5 LL maybe?) 3. Whatever you do use this opportunity to get to the bottom of your problems, this will take time and WORK! 4. Know that many of us on this site are longing for the day when our spouses will come to us and say, what your H has said to you (I know there are problems but I want to work on our M.)
Best wishes and sorry you find yourself here.
SD
PS - ERC, sorry to hijack your thread.
Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread