Its over again with exW

[SuitedUp]

Man I hope the penny drops for you real soon. You're really not getting this are you?

I send the exW some flowers at work today to brighten up her day after the week she was having and she loved them but said I didn have too.

thought we agreed on how things are and we are going to be good friends"

She sent me another text saying probably not a good idea because it leads to more.

She sends me a text saying "lots of traffic" as we both go down the same road to get home.

The about an hour later see sends another one sying " Flowers smell so much better than mold.

It's really quite simple. She is so confused that she doesn't know what she wants. On one hand, she wants you. On the other hand, she doesn't want you and remembers why she D'd you in the first place.

However, what really chilled me was -

I guess she noticed my frustration because I didn't say goodbye to her when we left the restaurant.

WTF, that is childish and proves you aren't ready for a relationship with anyone. You're finding hurt in the most insignificant daily, routine things. Not only do you find hurt, you feel a burning need to show it. You'd better fix this before you sabotage this new R with your ex before it gets a chance to grow. Yeah, it's that serious. I don't know your age but whatever it is, evidently you have some growing up to do.

I'm done for the weekend, if she needs me she knows where I am at.

That is the best thing for you to do no matter what has transpired and best for you to use this time to work on yourself and to improve the quality of your life by getting out and meeting new people (GAL).

Sorry for the brutal honesty.

On the other hand, despite the minor setbacks (in the scheme of things) you have all the power now. While your ex is playing coy, the reality is that you have her hooked but you don't seem to have a clue on how the reel her in. That's your challenge and your struggle combined. Here's a tip to get you started. Do some real, hardcore DBing.

God Bless

Suit