I am so glad your wife didn't find out, or maybe she knew. Wives are a lot smarter than you think and we may not say anything, I know I don't and I know every time my H looks me in the eye and lies and it hurts like he!!.
Your wife probably loves you to death and if you would put half the effort and do half the things you did for the OW who did NOT care for your family or kids if you have any... you just might be suprised at the spark you could bring back into your marriage... do it for you family... they deserve it and you owe that to them and yourself... you just might find you will feel for her what you once did.
You know how we feel, then! so why don't you make it RIGHT!!!! I wish my H would because I am tying like he@@!
