I wish you would reconsider some of the suggestions I made to you. You really are putting yourself at risk.
I am going to tell you one other thing. It is going to hurt your feelings, and I am not expecting a reply. I am saying it to you because I believe that it will stick with you and eventually make sense to you.
Your marriage can not be healed as long as your husband is an addict. So long as you don't realize the truth in the previous statement, you will be caught in a circle, always chasing your tail.
If you want to discuss strategies, I am willing to offer suggestions, but I can't help you with anything until you are willing to face the truth. No one can.
Lastly, don't cheat on your husband, that will only make matters much, much worse.
God bless you and your family. -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
