He has told me that he's "working on" getting back to us. I asked him if he had begun to talk to her about this, and he said that he's just been doing his own soul searching. I asked him what he has been thinking about, and then he said he's been working a lot, too, and has tried NOT to think about it. I asked him if he knew he wanted to give our M another chance why he didn't tell her that and at least START working on US. I asked if it was just because he didn't want to hurt anyone. He said he didn't want to talk about it...
He also told me the other night when we had our big blowout that he has been coming to the office late, around 11 or midnight, after I would be gone. This may be true on some nights, but for the most part, I know he has been staying with her.
OH MY GOODNESS...would you just read a little of what you wrote???...I have issues with your ASS-U-ME(ing)...you are now doing under the guise of (I believe)...you are trapping yourself in negative thoughts and this will lead you to negative actions...AND....are you listening????...Read the first paragraph that I quoted above and tell me what how you honestly see the person who wrote it (YOU)!
I will give you my objective opinion later...I have to go back to work....
