here is an idea, read Aud31's (infideltity forum) approach to her H's unwillingness to cut it w/the ow:

(read pgs 4 to5)

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=993563&page=1&fpart=4

Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.