I have the book The power of the praying wife, but I lent it out to a coworker and she is taking her sweet time around to reading it and I feel like I have to refresh myself w/ the book again. Thts funny what you said about him warning you when you kept on w/ the arguing b/c my H does that from time to time to get me focused again and to say ok enough is enough!
I just try to keep reminding myself that I have handed it over to God and will be delt w/ in His time not when I want it. I can't remember if I asked you this before,but if you are still ML w/ him it does not bother you about STD's? One part of me wants to ML (it's been a while), but the other part feels like this is where I show him my boundaries and that I don't want him making ML to the both of us at the same time. Then I also wonder if I continue NOT having sex that his sex w/ the OW will only get better?? Do you know what I mean? We never had any promblems in the intimacy part he even said so.
I guess this will be my new prayer whether or not initiate and let him know its ok to ML to me. That is my one confusion right now. I don't want too much time to pass where he forgets how it was in that sense and only fantasize about OW.
I was also wondering if I suggested him using condoms, but that will also say to him "it's ok for you to have sex w/ the both of us".
