Life goes on, and it ain't about Job

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YM and O;
Thank you both. I do continue to focus on the kids and try to make this as painless as possible. They have not asked in months if this will work out or if mom will come home. S6 has come the closest when he said he missed mom. I told him I missed her too, but it was going to be this way and he would just have to have fun with mom on the weekends he saw her. He has said this only one time in the 2 months she has been moved out.

That brings up my next question, if this is truley who my wife has decided to become, and the POS that she wants to build a life with, I am leaning towards looking at full custody and trying to insulate the kids from their behavior as much as possible. I can't see willingly exposing them to this BS, but short of full custody, I don't think I could prevent it. I guess I will wait and see what exactly she is asking for and then look at my options. I am not sure what it would take to achieve this, but I think a history of adultry, abandonment of your family, and getting engaged while you are still married would be a start. Then again, given the state of divorce law, maybe not.