Apparently neither rllrcstr or heart broken have ever sinned...| Good lord , talk about judging. This problem is relevant to marriage saving , and to question the post is , well your perogative , but not helpful. And quoting the bible is again all ok , but there is no room for scriptures in a failing bedroom. PALEEZ! No-one in history is more "predjudiced" than religeous folk. No denomination necessary...(ps I'm catholic , I should know...) My 4th cent? Don't tell your wife anything. Decide if what you have there at home is worth it.If it is , spend the rest of your time treating it as such. Focus on being a better person AND spouse everyday again and again. But you should live with that guilt as punishment. Its not fair to put any of that horrible "truth" onto your wife. It makes her feel terrible , and alleveates some of your guilt. What ever you choose , be true to your own heart and good luck!
