Teach, there is a saying that men don't leave something for nothing. I at first didn't think there was OW, but as the months went by after 'bomb' I found that there was an EA. It is over now, as my H has decided to make it work with me. Sometimes I still wonder, not about "her" but there is an occasional spat, nothin like before, however. The most recent one (last night) was over such a stupid thing. He's a FF and is taking another training class in January. I was simply inquiring as to the nights and times, strictly out of curiosity and he took it as keeping tabs on him and checking up on him. That was totally NOT my reasons for asking. If it was I could say it here but it wasn't! I was being curious and making conversation! Their ego's really!! There is also another saying, people who have nothing to hide, hide nothing. Take care, Lisa


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