Hi. Hope you don't mind me coming to your board. I post on the newcomers board, my thread is Please help, husband "not in love anymore??"
I guess I'm trying to find out if it's possible for a man to say "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" without there being another woman?
I know he had an EA during the summer while deployed (though he denies he felt any emotions for her).
Came home in Sept. dropped the bomb Dec. 2. We are trying to make it work, who knows what will happen.
I go through stages of believing there's no OW, I've asked, there are NO clues (at least right now) that there is one. He's been BRUTALLY honest with me so far, so if there is another woman, why not just tell me?
I also think I want there to be OW so that maybe I can go "emotionally dead" inside. I don't know.
If anyone would read some of my sitch. on my thread, offer insight, or anything, I would appreciate it so much!
Also, I like reading the success stories here, it gives me a bit of hope that I keep losing everyday. Jill
