"JUST DO IT" sound like a great idea. However, she's moved out and is mad & hurt. I've got to appoligize and explain why. She keeps asking Why? If I give her an answer, I think it will go a long way. But, I just don't really understand why yet. However, after reading posts and the first chapter, I now understand that men do have low desire.
I tended to view her "pushing" as nagging. But she really wasn't the typical "nag" you might think of. I know that the fastest way to get me to not do something is to push me to do it. And, the fastest way to get me to do something is to say that I can't have it.... then I really want it.
I don't eat any soy, that's too healthy. We've gotten to where we eat out way too much. Mexican, pizza, good food like that.
I really don't exercise, need to and it's on my new "to do list". The list of things that I need to do to improve "me."
If I were to see an attractive girl somewhere, I would think she sure is pretty. In my teens, I wanted to jump her and would dream about her.
My w hasn't filed or seen an attorney yet, I don't think. But, she's not likely to get in the sack with me right now. I'd do good if I could get her to have dinner with me.
I've really got to answer her why and that will go a long way to opening up the door. However, if she doesn't buy into the answer or feels it's the same old answers, then it's probably done. And, I'm not looking to just feed her some answer either, I want to know why too. This has been hard for me too.
