Life goes on, and it ain't about Job

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I have some peace today, this is what she has said she wanted, and I think it is time to start giving it to her. I am ready to let go. I have tried to give her space and time, I have not preassured her, initiated R talks, said ILY, I have made some strides at GAL, and all along the way, she won't even talk about how or why she is doing this. I think it will be like everyone has been saying, she will have to figure it out in her own way and on her own timetable. At some point she will realize what she has thrown away and what she has lost, and who she has become, but until she does there really is nothing else for me to do other then get on with it.

I will call the lawyer today, and get started. Tell wife we need to close joint account, she needs to step up with the kids, take them 2 nights a week, at least until bedtime, she needs to take over all her bills incl. auto ins. and pay off the last power bill in her name. She needs to come and get the rest of her stuff if she wants it.

I think I am where I need to be, THIS SUCKS!