I have to agree, Cissy, as to how much more you can and/or will take of this sitch. I wonder what he would, in the long run do, if you were to just kick his rear to the curb and go dark on him? He needs to figure things out one way or the other and he doesn't seem to be in the mental state of mind to do that right now.
This is all easier said than done, not being in the sitch myself, however, as hard as it would be to completely let him go, that may be the only thing left to do and let him finally figure things out for himself.
I don't know -- what do you think? Anything new?
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10