GEL, have you had problems forgiving your H? It seems like you sort of glided right through the issue once you found out about what he was doing and confronted him. From what I remember, it sounded like he came clean, was sorry and you forgave him and that was it. I'm sure it was more difficult than that, but it did seem to go pretty smoothly overall for you.
Do you still find it difficult or have you pretty much put it behind you? Do you still check up on him? Do you get jealous? I am curious if your only issue was that he was neglecting you. If you guys had a good sex life, would you have any problems with a porn habit on the side?
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
