Hopeless loser needs help......

[Heartbroken]

I am amazed you are posting at this website at all. I feel this group is for married people trying to fix their marriage. You seemed more concerned about the OW than your own wife. People should not start a new R until they are through with the first one - it save a lot of hurt!!

What you had with this woman was a fantasy and you have made it even more so that all this time it's been 'over'. Unless your current M is full of abuse -maybe you should look at what you have and could stand to lose. THE GRASS IS NOT GREENER over there!

Your A partner and your R with her WAS NOT REALITY - you did not deal with kids, inlaws, bills or everyday life streses. Get over it! You were a fool to have the affair!!