After the long talk with W's cousin, and my Sister today, I feel like I can (and will) detach from what is happening with them and focus more on myself, and what is needed to improve my personal situation.
It has taken me a while to realise this, but I somehow I feel relieved that I have accepted it as of 2pm today, on my birthday. I may finally get a good nights sleep tonight.
Thanks for the advice.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
