Sorry, but she probably never took you seriously and you were just there to build her ego up and help her feel special... I had two mai tai's eariler tonight so I'm a little blunt right now...
But generally, that's the scoop on relationships with married folks, they know you probably won't leave the spouse (they really don't want you to) and you're just a little non-serious fun until the "real thing" comes along.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
