All you can do is try to be her friend, listen to her and agree with every crazy thing she says even if you think she's completely insane. By just being her friend and a support system she will feel more comfortable with you and may even eventually rely on you. Let her figure out the insane stuff on her own. Don't try to correct anything. Just be her friend and be there for this kids wherever she's lacking. That's really all you can do.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
