i'm M she wasn't...she was when the A started for about the first year. i can't get over her...now i find out today that she's getting married in June....less than 10 months after we ended it.
Is this a joke?
You're married, but you had an affair for 3.5 years with a woman who broke up with you 10 months ago.
You can't get over her, but you haven't done anything in that 10 months. So, in fact you had over 4 years to make a decision to be with her exclusively, by leaving your wife - but you didn't?
Do the girl a favour and let her get on with her life. Grow some backbone and either go to marriage counselling and sort out your marriage issues, or leave your wife and get a life for yourself.
Geez .....
V
Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
