was i being lied to? She wanted commitment and your couldn't commit, doesn't seem like a lie, seems like she wanted a LIFE did she not feel for me that way she said? Can't say. After 3.5 years and no long term commitment from you, it sounds like she moved on. Why would she put her life on hold forever for you? you're looking at the biggest fool in the world..... i would have given up everything for her and now i'm left with nothing.... anyone else have this happen? Not the biggest, just one of the many. You didn't give up everything for her, you stayed married and you're left with a marriage. If you had left your wife to be with her, perhaps things would have been different?
Are you still married? Is your intent to reconcile with your wife or to try and stop your ex-lover's wedding?
Last edited by trytoohard; 04/19/0704:24 AM.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." -Eleanor Roosevelt. M-42, H-42. M-22yrs, together 27yrs, Sep 5yrs. D-22, S-18 I'm a survivor
