I have no intentions of asking her since I don't think I would get the truth. And if I got confirmation, I don't know what that would do to me.

So how do you deal with it?

I've read some of your situation but I am not sure where you guys are at now...has she filed?

M:32 W:26 Kids: None Cats: 2
Together: 9 years Married: May 2005
Bomb: September 2006 Sep: November 2006