resentment at having to do that job for a car he doesn't even like much onto me for being the one to pick it. Sounds like what goes on here. Just change genders. I do all the car stuff.
it's simple avoidance. Oh dear a whole four days with no work and no place to hide - I know throw a massive moody that'll keep the required distance. That maybe true, but their maybe other reasons.
You asked him and he chose not to go into detail. Just because he won't tell you, that doesn't make your guess valid. Your guess might be correct or maybe it isn't.
What is the possibility he won't speak up because you will lay it all back on him????? BTDT too.
Geez, imagine for a minuet Mr. Hap and BB shopping for a car? What a sight when the car needs service. I know BB would just buy another one fast.
I did State Inspections similar to MOT's when I lived on the east coast in 1964.
Fran, until you find out why Mr. Hap was moody, guessing is all you have to work with.
I read about women being dedicated to their kids and neglecting the H. I see H dedicated to a job and neglect the W. Diffwerent things drive people to over do some things.
We are supposed to be adults and make the right/best choices, but guess what? We don't. Our parents didn't all of the time.
Anyone seen Mr Hap? No, sure didn't, but I did some of the things he is doing. Maybe for different reasons. Maybe for some of the same reasons.
Get him on the forum and I will listen to his story.