Could Use Some Input Over here

[Heywyre]

I understand that you don't want to bring things up if he is not where "he needs to be" but what about where YOU need to be?

And, will he be "where he needs to be" a year from now. He will wonder WTH is she bringing this up for now and do you REALLY think you will be able to have any type of decent discussion regarding your R when he is away?

Sorry, but if it were me, there is no way I could let it go a whole year. I appreciate all the posters on here but one size doesn't necessarily fit all and you have to do what is best for YOU