Fran It didn't irrirate me at all,
Good. I can imagine you not being happy wth your H working as much as he does, but maybe he sees it as he has to work that much and not much to do with avoiding intimacy in his mind. I am not there so I don't know.

if someone who has BTDT could talk to my H about working too much
I am willing to post my ideas if he will.

I made a post which somehow got inserted above your recent ones, so scroll up about 4 posts and you'll see it.
I see a post from yesterday to which I replied.
Quote:
Fran Exactly! This is what my H does. He prefers to hand over decisions to me then blame me for being "overbearing" when something does not turn out to his liking.
I don't think much about blaming BB for most of my over working, but I see where I have in the past.


a fix for a previous post of mine;
(Maybe I am looking at the of a sex life with her.) to Maybe I am looking at almost the end of a sex life with her.


Last edited by DIY; 04/18/07 11:16 PM.