I thought I would come into this forum since my H affair is back to full swing again after coming home the second time and breaking all promises a second time. It is his fault, too I know, but OW is playing dirty games and totally turning my H against me. I am DBusting my A$$ off and was making a little progress, but I think she continues to pull him back with her games. She is devious and really wants him to move back in with her and I believe she will stop at nothing. I thought my H was smarter to people like this, but he is so blinded and brainwashed amongst other things by her....... here goes.....
This was my last post... I got home yesterday at 8:30 p.m. grocery shopping with my little boy... he was talking to OW on the phone. He told her he would call her back.
He starts demanding I tell him where his bird house he made at work yesterday was that was in his truck. Now honestly I had no idea what he was talking about. so that is what I said, I said what bird box? He got really mad and kept accusing me of taking it. He started yelling and carrying on, but I stayed calm and swore to him I didn,t take it or even know about it.
He started crying and punching the coffee table so hard and demanding I bring him his bird box in 5 minutes!!!!! I stayed calm again and looked him in the eyes and asked him to please trust me, I did not do it. He was crying and saying I was making him believe he was crazy. I hugged him and said I love you, I would not do that I was trying to help him. I got him to calm down, but he told me he was done with me and told me to leave him alone.
That OW has got him convinced I did this. This is crazy! This is the third or fourth thing he has accused me of that the OW is doing. He keeps believing her. She is a terrible person. He was out with her yesterday and I'll bet you she took it out of his truck or got it somehow. I don't know how, but she did. She is really trying to get him to leave me (today almost did it) by making him believe I am out to get him and I am doing things I really am not.
Here's a recap on what the OW has my H convinced I am behind that I have not done or would never do:
1. That I set up the robbery of her house. 2. I am calling her. 3. I am having someone call her and threatening her life. 4. I stole the bird house my H made out of the back of his truck. (now mind you on top of this she has been the one calling me even at my work one time).
Does anyone know how to handle when the OW is playing so dirty!?? HELP?! My H almost left and went back to her, he was on his way out the door because of this. I think it was because I stayed so calm, that he didn't, I don't know. This is getting ridiculous the games and BS she is pulling. She really is making my H crazy!!!! She really is. She is a terrible person. What do I do? Help? How do I convince him I am not doing these things. My word is not good enough for him with the OW still having such a hold on him. He believes her every time!
