Need another opinion, is my W OM, friend or more?

[andyv]

Thanks Heartbroken,

I spoke to W's cousin for nearly 2 hours last night (whilst W was in bed). She told me for the first time that OM had emailed (and spoken to cousin) stating that he does not want a relationship with W. W knows this but I am not sure if she is hanging on to false hope, and really wanting this guy.

I also know that this OM is quite carefull with his money, and my W has funded alot of activities for him when they have been out and about. I think this is some sort of desperation to get him interested, but if he has had no feelings for 3 months, I hope she is wasting her time.

Anyways, this is the way I would like to think (cousin has no reason to lie, she has told me to move on and find someone better, as she does not agree with what W is doing and the way she is treating me and my D, also her constant lies to everyone about her activities eg going out most nights until early hours, spending no time with D etc just to not look bad to family and old friends).